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Okay, I'm in a jam here. Renee and and I getting married this Saturday, 11/7, in the little surfing/fishing village of Sayulita, Mexico. She has always been very supportive of my Rams addiction and has, in fact, become quite the fan herself. But here is where the advice come in, particularly from those of you who have been married for some time.

How do I suggest, on our first day of marriage, that we leave our secluded oceanfront cottage for a trip into town to see our Rams dismantle the 'queens?
 
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My advice is to ignore the Rams, the NFL, and everything but your new wife or you will be reminded of it for years to come. "Remember what you did on our honeymoon....blah...blah....blah?"

Btw I can't believe you're even suggesting doing this unless your new wife is a Rams fanatic as well...and even then. :eek:
 
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Prime Time said:
My advice is to ignore the Rams, the NFL, and everything but your new wife or you will be reminded of it for years to come. "Remember what you did on our honeymoon....blah...blah....blah?"

Btw I can't believe you're even suggesting doing this unless your new wife is a Rams fanatic as well...and even then. :eek:
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Well, I had planned the wedding back in May to avoid such "issues" but The Bachelor in Paradise swooped in and rented out the entire resort for the time we were to be there so now there's this.

She has yet to reach the fanatic stage but she knows our every Sunday during the season is planned.
 
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My advice is to ignore the Rams, the NFL, and everything but your new wife or you will be reminded of it for years to come. "Remember what you did on our honeymoon....blah...blah....blah?"

Btw I can't believe you're even suggesting doing this unless your new wife is a Rams fanatic as well...and even then. :eek:
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Totally agree... don't take this wrong or anything... but, if you have to ask for this advice? You have your priorities wrong, IMO (and this is coming from a 45+ year Rams fan).

She's liable to get pissed and take off with a cabana boy or something... :ROFLMAO:
 
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yeah...tough one....been with my wife for around 27 years...but we just got married 3 years ago....on the same weekend of the Az game (we saw the JJ two picks game then went to Vegas).....So....And she loved the game...I'd bring it up, only if you know...YOU KNOW, it wouldn't upset her...

You can play it safe, DVR the game...always another live game....only one wedding...and honeymoon...
 
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Dude, you're not gonna be out of the bedroom on your honeymoon. There will be more Ram wins... There will not be many more weekends like that!
 
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Bigger things than football, catch the highlights later on and enjoy the time with your new bride.
 
I think she knows you well enough by now. It's not like you guys haven't been together for a long time already.

My advice is don't change who you are after getting married. You both will compromise for EACH OTHER at times though... and a Rams Game is one of those times.... and I'm pretty sure she knows that already.

I'm sure that she has something that is so important to her that you know you'll always have to work with or around.

Congratulations again !!!
 
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LACHAMP46 said:
yeah...tough one....been with my wife for around 27 years...but we just got married 3 years ago....on the same weekend of the Az game (we saw the JJ two picks game then went to Vegas).....So....And she loved the game...I'd bring it up, only if you know...YOU KNOW, it wouldn't upset her...

You can play it safe, DVR the game...always another live game....only one wedding...and honeymoon...
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Agree with the masses here. Been fan almost 40 years and married 7 with two awesome kids. You may learn this on your own or over time, but there are more important things than the Rams.....as great as they are lol. If you know anything about women and few of us do but give her the wedding and honeymoon. Make it about her and trust me she is like every other women and she will care if watch the Rams. If I am wrong, well you just did something nice for your new wife and trust me she will pay you back 2 fold for it.

Oh and like Champ suggested. DVR it, its the only way I watch games now lol.
 
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ScotsRam said:
Dude, you're not gonna be out of the bedroom on your honeymoon. There will be more Ram wins... There will not be many more weekends like that!
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This.

I may be single. I may have ruined every relationship I've been in ( :cry::ROFLMAO:) but always choose the fucking HANKY PANKY over ONE game. You're likely to get a shit ton of it. Enjoy it. Enjoy it before the kids come.

Just have her make it up to you by wearing NOTHING but a Rams jersey the entire time you're there. :mrburnsevil::mrburnsevil::mrburnsevil:
 
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BigRamFan said:
Okay, I'm in a jam here. Renee and and I getting married this Saturday, 11/7, in the little surfing/fishing village of Sayulita, Mexico. She has always been very supportive of my Rams addiction and has, in fact, become quite the fan herself. But here is where the advice come in, particularly from those of you who have been married for some time.

How do I suggest, on our first day of marriage, that we leave our secluded oceanfront cottage for a trip into town to see our Rams dismantle the 'queens?
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Can I call her after she leaves you? o_O








Kidding. Hey, let it be her idea, then you win. However, if she presents a multiple choice like massages and lunch or go watch the Rams, it's a trap!

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BigRamFan said:
Okay, I'm in a jam here. Renee and and I getting married this Saturday, 11/7, in the little surfing/fishing village of Sayulita, Mexico. She has always been very supportive of my Rams addiction and has, in fact, become quite the fan herself. But here is where the advice come in, particularly from those of you who have been married for some time.

How do I suggest, on our first day of marriage, that we leave our secluded oceanfront cottage for a trip into town to see our Rams dismantle the 'queens?
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To accurately answer this question I need to know how much you enjoy pussy on a scale of "yes I love that stuff to no I can live without it". Think of it as a modified scale of "one to ten" adjusted for something as important as vajayjay.

Once I have that info I can help you out. :icare:
 
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Forget about the Rams for that weekend

 
Just feel her out, bro. Let her know the game is on and that you want to watch it. Suggest that she watch it with you or find a spa, shopping, our tour she can do if she wants to instead of watching the game. If it looks like it is going to be a problem, miss the freaking game and do something fun with her. Both you guys will be happier you did. There will always be you and her, and there will always be Ram football.

I guess the proper question to your question is how do you want her to remember it. She might want to remember it as letting you watch the game was a cool thing to do. She might want that one on one, leave everything else behind memory as well. You know her more than we do.
 
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You have to mention it in passing and as if you're joking. That's what I do when I'm trying to test the waters.
"Beach, smeach. Let's blow off this paradise for a few hours and watch some Rams football haha."

Her answer (or reaction) will tell you all you need to know.

And remember. Happy wife, happy life.
 
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a bunch of terrible advice here.

you need to establish the groundwork right out of the gate. Sunday is your day to watch football. You have 30 odd weeks to share your Sundays during the rest of the year.
 
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LesBaker said:
To accurately answer this question I need to know how much you enjoy wuss on a scale of "yes I love that stuff to no I can live without it". Think of it as a modified scale of "one to ten" adjusted for something as important as vajayjay.

Once I have that info I can help you out. :icare:
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Mark me down for a solid 10 on this one @LesBaker .
 
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You decided to get married during football season?
Well, you made your choice, when you set the date. The bye week, would have been a perfect weekend for a romantic getaway.;)
 
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